Saturday, August 29, 2009

It's the final countdown!

Induction Time
September 2, 2009 looks like the big day! My doctor is having me come in for an inducement Wednesday, the 2nd. It may take all day, you just never know. Her birthday may actually be the 3rd. The reason for the inducement is mainly due to the diabetes and the fact that she is getting big. According to Dr. Allison's measurements, she weighed 7lb 9oz (+ or -1lb) last Tuesday. So, it is possible that if I went on and delivered on my due date she could weight 9.5lb. It is much safer to induce and get her out at a smaller weight, than to risk her being too big and getting stuck in the canal or something worse.
We spent our last Saturday as a couple without a baby to look after by doing pretty much the normal. I worked a few hours this morning answering the phone (which I do a few hours a week for a little $) and Carless went to town did some errands. After Carless got back home he mowed the lawn, I must say it looks pretty good, while I cleaned the white fence that lines our deck. It has been years since we cleaned it, I am ashamed to say. So, it took a lot of work. Carless finished that lawn and got out the power sprayer to help me out. It looks so much better! I'm tired, but glad we got that done before are hands are too full to do much ;).
So, the countdown is 4 more days till we go to the hospital! I can't believe it is finally here! It is somewhat surreal. I have been waiting for this day, it seems like forever. Now it is almost here. My next blog will be about the big day, can't wait to show her off.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

The Plan For Now!

One of Our Baby Showers
36 Weeks along!
The plan for now is to induce a little early if I don't go into spontaneous labor on my own. Dr. Allison will measure Carlee next week to see how big she is getting. If she isn't too big, the induction date will most likely be on September 3rd or 4th. If she gets near 10lb, we will have to do a c-section. Hopefully she is not too big and the induction goes well or I go into labor on my own. I thought this day would never get here and now we are so close! I can't believe that most likely we will have our "little one" in our arms in about two weeks. I've got her bag packed and ready to go, although I have had it ready for a while, but keep changing out outfits.

The baby shower was so nice, thank you all for making it so special for us. One thing is for sure, Carlee will not need anymore clothes until the cold season comes :). She is one lucky girl to have so many people who love and care for her. We are so blessed to have her and all of our loved ones who have prayed and supported us through this pregnancy. Thank you so much.


Saturday, August 15, 2009

Update on the Adoption & Foster Care Process

I just wanted to write a quick blog about the adoption and foster care process Carless and I were going through. As some of you may remember Carless and I went through foster care classes through MBCH and finished some time in the Spring. We began the process in hopes to adopt a certain girl who we knew was already in foster care and at the time there was a good chance she would be adopted out. Well, the main goal for fostering is to reunite with the bioparents. It looks like that will be the case with this little girl we were hoping to get. It is all in God's hands. I still don't know the outcome. We were asked at one point to become the foster parents of this little girl, regardless of whether we would end up adopting her or just fostering her. It was something we struggled with. When we started this process, #1 we were not expecting another baby and #2 it looked like she would be adopted out. Now the tables have turned and I again learned we are not the ones in control, that there is a better plan out there for all of us. Her bio-parents have been doing what they need to get her back and we have a healthy little girl of our own on the way. I was thankful that we didn't have to make the decision to foster her or not. I felt like getting her around the same time as Carlee's due date would be too much on me and not fair to either one of them.
As far as the foster care license goes, Carless and I have put that on hold. If we were certified we would be getting calls and have to turn the down. Right now we are trying to focus on Carlee, getting ready for her arrival. After she comes and we decide it is the right thing to do, then we might go ahead and finish our certification so that we can do respite care. Respite care is basically baby sitting for foster parents. That may be something we can handle along with an infant. We will still need to pray about that. The little girl we wanted to adopt, whom I referred to as "A" is doing good with her current foster family and is spending lots of time and bonding with her bio-mom.

Friday, August 7, 2009

September, here we come


One more month to go!


We had a doctor appointment yesterday and had another ultrasound, but the pictures did not turn out sad to say. So, no cute 3-d ultrasound pictures to post. Luckily we will be seeing our Carlee soon and have some wonderful pics from before.

Our visit went good. Carlee is still growing good. My hope was that she was under 6lb and she was! They estimated her weight at 5lb 15oz. We had our first fetal monitoring done and she did great, her heart beat stays around 150-160 for the most part, it accelerated some, up to 190's and down to the 120's. My doctor said this is normal and what they were looking for. I will go in for fetal monitoring weekly from here on out. Then if I am still pregnant in about a month, they will do another ultrasound to see how she is doing. I'm assuming to see how big she is then and access whether or not I need to be induced early or have a c-section. Hopefully neither of the two will be necessary. The gestational diabetes is going OK. I am now on insulin as of this week. I don't like giving myself a shot in the belly, but I'm getting used to it.


Carless and I got her crib put together last night.


It took a while and lots of bickering on who was right, but in the end we have a great looking crib for Carlee.


Carless put the dresser together all by himself and I put the changing table and glider together. It was fun getting everything set up. I don't have the room arranged exactly how I like it, but for now this will do.




The next pictures were taken by my cousin Summar. She took several good pictures. I just picked a few to post.


34 weeks