Thursday, December 31, 2009

A DIFFERNT CHILD
A different child,
People notice
There's a special glow around you
You grow
Surrounded by love,
Never doubting you are wanted;
Only look at the pride and you
In your mother and father's eyes.

And if sometimes
Between the smiles
There's a trace of tears,
One day
You'll understand.
You'll understand
There was once another child
A different child
Who was in their hopes and dreams.
That child will never outgrow the baby clothes
That child will never keep them up at night
In fact, that child will never be any trouble at all.
Except sometimes, in a silent moment,
When mother and father miss so much
That different child.
May hope and love wrap you warmly
And may you learn the lesson forever
How infinitely precious
How infinitely fragile
Is the life on earth.
One day, as a young man or woman
You may see another mother's tears
Another father's silent grief
Then you, and you alone
Will understand
And offer the greatest comfort.
When all hope seems lost,
You will tell them
With great compassion,
"I know how you feel,
I'm only here
Because my mother tried again".

2 comments:

Heather said...

I loved this - thank you for sharing it with me and for sharing it here!
I really appreciated your words of support as well.

LaurieJo said...

That was really beautiful! It's so easy for people to assume (or maybe they just hope it's true) that the pain of loss is gone once a healthy child comes home. That is not true.

Thanks for being sincere. Your precious Carlee will benefit from your increased gratitude and your desire to hold onto each precious moment.